Episode #163 - Emotional Patterns We Need to Discuss
Sixes don’t just feel emotions.
We manage them.
We analyze them.
We prepare for them.
We try to contain them.
And often… we try not to feel them at all.
In this episode, I walk through some of the most common emotional patterns I see in Sixes — patterns that keep us disconnected from our actual experience and stuck in loops of fear, control, and overthinking.
Because the truth is:
It’s not the emotions themselves that create the problem.
It’s how we relate to them.
In this episode, we explore:
- Why Sixes interpret emotions as danger signals
- The belief that “I can’t handle this feeling”
- How we try to manage emotions through thinking and control
- Why intellectualizing emotions keeps them stuck
- How projection shows up (and why it makes the world feel scarier)
- What it actually means to be with your emotions instead of managing them
This work is foundational.
Because living uninhibited doesn’t mean getting rid of your emotions.
It means being able to feel them… without being run by them.
A question to take with you:
What do I believe will happen if I actually feel this emotion?
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