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Episode #84 - How Sixes Confuse Thinking and Doing
As sixes, we can get stuck in loops where we confuse thinking with doing.Â
We often experience thinking AS doing, and give too much weight to what appears in our minds.
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Episode #83 - What is Coaching for Sixes
In this episode I share the different eras of my coaching journey and how that informs how I work with sixes today.
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Episode #82 - Bad Feelings Don’t Mean What You Think They Do
As sixes we unconsciously avoid negative emotions because of what we make them mean. We assume negative emotion means “something has gone wrong and must be fixed!” or “I should have done something different! It’s my...
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Episode #81 - Curiosity over Certainty
In order to experience real change in our 6 brains, we have to actively choose curiosity over certainty over and over again.
But…how??
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Episode #80 - How to Not Get Stuck in Rumination
In this episode, I talk through the purpose of rumination in keeping us “safe”.
We explore what is required to stop letting rumination get the best of our forward progress in life!
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Episode #79 - Our brains on STRESS
This week lets explore all the parts that show up when we are under stress.
Mine won’t be exactly the same as yours, but this example can help you look for and spot your own.
When we understand what our system does...
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Episode #78 - What Else Can We Do With Our Minds
This episode is a deeper dive into a framework to think…about our thinking!Â
I also explore the connection between thoughts and feelings and how we can impact that connection by the questions we ask...
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Episode #77 - How to USE our thinking to manage discomfort
As we continue to talk about thinking and how to use our thinking for us, let’s explore how to use thinking to manage and influence physical sensations! Sound confusing? Listen in!
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Episode #76 - Dealing with Intrusive Thoughts
In this episode, I explore how to deal with and handle intrusive thoughts.
Usually we try to resist them, fight them, wish they wouldn’t impact us so much. This is a different approach, and it works!
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Episode #75 - Managing Our Sixy Minds
Working in the realm of thinking on purpose is such important work for sixes to do.
Knowing the right questions to AND the pitfalls along the self awareness journey are critical.
Listen in to learn more!
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Episode #74 - Shifting Out of Blame
As we work to connect with our own inner authority, we can often get stuck in cycles of blame which make it hard to move ourselves forward.
Inside this episode, I explore how to recognize and get out of this...
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Episode #73 - Guide to Your Inner Guide Part 2
Sixes need to build a bridge between the doubt that threatens to keep their inner guide forever inhibited and the elusive inner guide itself.Â
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