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Episode #72 - Guide to Your Inner Guide Part 1
Sixes do not have automatic access to their inner guide.Â
This doesn’t mean we don’t have it. We need to discover it and learn to trust it.
Here is part 1 of that journey.
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Episode #71 - A Formula for a Sixy Moment
In this episode I walk through a personal moment of sixy spin and the exact formula I use to regulate myself back into choice rather than being RUN by the unconscious operating system.Â
Sometimes being UNINHIBITED...
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Episode #70 - Sixes and Anger
In this episode I describe 3 buckets that sixes tend to inhabit around the experience and expression of anger.
Generally our relationship with anger is a complicated one.
Building a conscious relationship to our...
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Episode #69 - When We ARE on Different Pages
In this episode, as a follow up to last week, I talk through what to do when we realize we are stuck in a pattern of needing to get other people on our page!
These are steps we can apply to the moments of realization...
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Episode #68 - “We all need to see this!”
The desire to connect over shared perspectives is a beautiful part of sixiness.
The internal dysregulation that can occur when that is not happening is something that we benefit from having awareness of. Listen in to...
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Episode #67 - All About Worry
Worry is a coping mechanism to navigate uncertainty, anxiety, and angst.
The goal is to have some control over our worry, so it doesn't run our thinking without our permission!
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Episode #66 - Practice Makes Perfect....is BS, but it helps!
Practicing anything does not make us perfect at it.
However, practice IS required to get better and to have any skill work for us.
Managing angst when it feels like too much IS a skill. It's also a habit we can...
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Episode #65 - What if they get mad? Loss of approval.
In this episode, I use a low stakes situation to walk through the components of a common problem for sixes, worrying if someone else is going to be mad at us.
Any perceived threats to loss of support can be VERY...
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Episode #64 - Sixiness in Action: A Case Study
In this episode I break down a typical example of my adaptive strategies showing up and not only how I navigate it internally, but how I talk to myself about it on the back end. Use this as a case study and apply the...
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Episode #63 - Is this my sixiness or is it trauma?
This is a question, I get asked a LOT. It shows up in conversations around type 6 often in Enneagram spaces.
This is a delicate conversation with a lot of nuance and room for interpretation. Here is how I’m currently...
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Episode #62 - Anxiety, Let’s Talk About It
 In this episode, I dive into YOUR questions about angst, anxiety, and what in the world we can do about it!
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Episode #61 - Pillars to Sixy Mental Health
What are the areas to focus on in your life to get to a healthy version of you?
Well, I don’t REALLY know, BUT I have some ideas. Here are the main pillars I live by that also inform my coaching philosophy and...
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